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Boy Butter has been creating the best lubricants for gay sex for over 20 years. We choose our ingredients, churn the formulas, and pack each order ourselves. When you choose Boy Butter, you’re getting lubricants trusted by gay men, developed for sensitive skin, and made to make your sex life better.
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Every body and every bedroom is different. We’ve developed a full line of gay lubricants to match your needs, your toys, and your favorite ways to play.
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Our signature oil based lubes, including coconut oil blends, deliver that classic, thick, creamy Boy Butter texture. These original formulas are built for long-lasting slip and a naturally slick, buttery feel. Oil based lube is ideal for extended sessions and massage, providing a perfect cushion. Just remember: oil based lube isn’t compatible with latex condoms and may leave its mark on most fabrics - Always check toy compatibility before use.
Water Based Lubricants
Boy Butter’s water based lubricants are the good all rounder; safe for latex condoms and every sex toy, with easy rinse-off from skin and most fabrics. We add unique touches like aloe vera and vitamin E for comfort, making these formulas especially friendly to sensitive skin. If you want a personal lubricant that won’t get sticky or trap bacteria, our water based options are the perfect balance of smooth and practical.
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Need staying power? Our silicone lube is famous for its ultra-slick, long-lasting lubrication that keeps going for a few hours, even in water. It’s a top pick for anal sex and shower play, delivering Boy Butter’s signature glide with zero reapplication drama. Silicone based lube is often the best anal lube for anyone who wants a smoother ride from start to finish.
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Anal play needs more from your average lube. That’s why every Boy Butter anal lubricant is formulated with thicker consistency, longer-lasting cushion, and ingredients that keep you comfortable. Whether you’re on top, on bottom, or anywhere in between, our anal lubes are here to reduce friction and enhance comfort. Look for our paraben free, gel-like options for a smooth, gentle experience.
Lubes for Every Body, Every Activity
No two sex lives are exactly alike. That’s why we offer:
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Flavored and oral-safe options
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Paraben free and vegan options for sensitive skin and eco conscious customers
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Aloe vera and vitamin E blends for extra soothing, especially during long sex sessions
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Water based and silicone based lube, all made for toys (just check your material match)
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Thoughtfully chosen ingredients—always made in our facility, never outsourced
Whether for a quickie or a full night in, Boy Butter’s lineup of sexual lubricants will keep things smooth.
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Boy Butter FAQs
Which lubricant is best for anal sex?
Look for our anal lubes with a thicker consistency. Our oil based and silicone based Boy Butter are often preferred, but water based is a great choice for easy cleanup and toy compatibility.
Are Boy Butter lubricants safe for sensitive skin?
Yes! Many of our sexual lubricants are paraben free and made with skin-friendly ingredients like aloe vera and vitamin E. Always check the label if you have specific allergies or questions.
Can I use Boy Butter with condoms?
Our water based lubricants are compatible with latex condoms. Oil based lube should only be used with non-latex condoms. Silicone based lubes are generally condom-safe, but always double-check the packaging or bottle to be sure.
Which Boy Butter lube should I use with toys?
Water based lubes work with all sex toys. Avoid silicone based lube on silicone toys, and check your toy’s guidelines for oil based options.
Is the anus self lubricating?
The anal canal isn’t self lubricating, which is why using a high-quality personal lubricant—like Boy Butter—is so important for comfort, safety, and sexual wellness during anal sex or any backdoor play.
How do I keep my Boy Butter fresh?
Store your bottle in a cool, dry place and close it tightly after use. Each batch is made for maximum shelf life and satisfaction.
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